Just ranting, not a BF issue.

[MOJORyder]

Just going to vent here cause I am pretty royally pissed. So ignore me, just need to spew some crap out.

So last night, I go to shoot pool as I normally do on Wednesday nights at The Crest. They have this uhh Karaoke thing going there which... while it doesn't bug me hearing it...I tend to avoid it cause, well, it's mostly a bunch of fat old drunks and gay guys.

Sooo, last night, the new girl I've been messing around with comes in, Jessie.. now, she is a very pretty girl and enjoys singing the karaoke crap while I shoot my games.. so it was no big shock to me when one of the gay guys comes up to me saying "wow man, you really scored with this one"..so I'm like "ya man, only problem is, she's the type of girl I can fall in love with easily.. but thats the problem, I wasn't looking to fall in love when I met her."

Nothing wrong with that right? Hell, it's a damned compliment!

Fast forward 20 minutes, Jessie comes outside while I'm smoking a cig and says "hey, that Dan guy (the gay guy) just told me that you're only using me and that will never love me..blah blah blah." (Not being a drama queen, she was genuinly hurt by this)...

So I'm like wtf? So I'm fuming right? Pretty damned pissed off. Now mind you, I've been going to this bar for like.. 12 years (minus time I was recalled) so the bartenders, patrons, etc..everyone knows me.
So when gay boy comes up like nothing has happend and goes "Hey Lee, Jessie put up a song for you to song, it's your turn buddy" I went off.

*language warning here*

"Shut your f*cking Piehole you cheap f*ggot b*tch! Don't you dare f*cking talk to me.." blah blah.
Needless to say, Myles, the bartender and the folks sitting at the bar were like..wtf?

So Jessie like..holds me back..maybe cause he is a full foot taller than me, maybe cause she doesn't want a fight..maybe cause ..who knows..anyways..
So I go up there..sing this song Jessie put up..pissed, but doing what she wants to hear. OK, so I get done..and am about to go outside and confront this piece of trash..and the DJ stops me (Mary) and says "Listen Lee, he feels really bad and knows he f*cked up, just let it go.."
so I'm all "OK, that I can accept..if he is just being a gay drama queen, which we know he is, fine, I can accept that. I'll just go tell him Im pissed but all is cool."

so I do, and go back inside...Myles, the bartender come sup to me and asks what that was all about..I tell him, so Myles then 86's him from the bar... apparently Myles and Smokie (the other bartender) have both had enough of him...never buying a drink, expecting free cokes, etc etc. so no matter what the DJ says to plead for him not to be 86'd, he is gone.

Cool..I could really care less.

sooo, just now, Jessie sends me this Message on my myspace.. as follows:

"I talked to my mom about the situation, she's my best friend and I go to her for everything. She said I should tell you that he called me this morning which is why I was thinking about it again. I gave him my number before all the bullshit because I stupidly thought he just wanted to be my friend. I told him to lose the number this morning.
He was going on and on again about the same crap. I can't believe someone would do that... It doesn't make any sense.. Why would someone not want us to be together? Whatever. Had I known it was him i wouldn't even have answered"

So now I'm like..wtf is up with this fruitloop? I mean seriously..wth gives? I basically forgive him, let him drive off into the night with his dental work intact..and he does it AGAIN? Are you sh*tting me?

Man.. I could bash his skull in for trying to mess me up with this fantastic girl..I just don't get it.. what an asshat.

[MOJORyder]

Hah, President Bush was on the Cheer Squad too.. I knew I liked you Aids :)

Oh and, ya, he is totally gay.. flamer, flamboyant..you know the type. He's been around for about a year out and out flamer... just perplexed.

THat said, don't care who is or isn't gay.. the gay guy "dan" comes in with every week is a totally cool guy.... just using derogatory gay stuff against Dan cause frankly, he deserves it after pulling that crud twice.

so let me say.. if anyone her is a flamer...ermm..queen..errmm..Gay! Ya, I mean Gay (heh), no offense :)

[MOJORyder]

Ya, I hear ya. Knowing he is 86'd has a very sweet flavor for me.. I can deal with alot of things, but blatant disrespect when I've done nothing but been friendly towards someone..just bugs badly.

She is a special girl.. much younger than me (she's only 26), so I can't say where tomorrow leads.. but I don't want it dictated to me by some freak of nature ya know>

Thanks Aids, thanks much.

[rambo]

hey mojo, if this guy is really gay maybe he wants you. lol either way you need kick the shit out of him. i think that because you let it go that night he thought he could talk shit about you and get away with it.

but be careful, he sounds like a guy who will call the cops on you. and since he is gay they can add an anti-gay charge against you. walk up to him and give him a hard open hand slap. talk alittle then give him another one. its effective on guys who act like b****s and leaves no marks in case he calls the police.

i hate to see you get in trouble, but this is the only way i see that you can answer a guy who is bad mouthing you and ****blocking you from getting this girl.

then again, dont listen to me.i think with my ***** instead of my brain.

IMO if you dont slap the shit out of him, he will say shit again until you do something.

[Specialist]

Watch the language on the posts, if its not acceptable on the server.. its not acceptable on the forums either. Also, please don't be demeaning toward someone just because of their sexual preference.. Now don't get me wrong, I am not defending this guy's actions.. its just that to get respect, you need to show some respect also.

Its like one of my buds once told me, "dude, pass the hot sauce"

Best of luck and before you do anything, think about the consequences.

[Grizzly]

Watch the language on the posts, if its not acceptable on the server.. its not acceptable on the forums either. Also, please don't be demeaning toward someone just because of their sexual preference.. Now don't get me wrong, I am not defending this guy's actions.. its just that to get respect, you need to show some respect also.

Its like one of my buds once told me, "dude, pass the hot sauce"

Best of luck and before you do anything, think about the consequences.

WTF...I didn't know Dr. Phil was a dc admin! :-)

[Specialist]

I think I am better looking than Dr. Phil.

And my post wasn't really toward anyone AIDS, I just don't want this post to get out of control because I could see it happening.

[MOJORyder]

Sorry Spec.. justy in the wrong mood today after hearing he did it twice.

I will control my potty fingers in the future :)

But ya know, technically, I didn't cuss.. I used Asteriks :D

Thanks though man for understanding and not like.. kicking me flat out.

[RoLnRoCk]

you're better than that guy moj, just let it go dude.

[rambo]

sorry about my language spec. i got a little carried away.