Mali Mrav loutish behavior

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Otto Kontrol wrote: June 15th, 2020, 1:18 pm My statement form last night stands: Can we just stop beating this poor dead horse?

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My last words about this :

1. I've never ever complained about any player since the beginning of BF (all mods included), in about 17 years of online gaming.
2. Yes saying just "hi" repeatedly in such circumstance can be obnoxious.
3. Let me resume you're totally right as admin (and I think it), he is not.

See you all later and Thanks for your support.
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BD,

Please put Mali on ignore and come play. We all like having you here. What happened in the other server is no business of EA117's and I wouldn't support action from our admin team because of it, but yes Mali was picking your ass the other night. Please just ignore!

Mali,

You're a smart guy, you know you were picking his ass for a reaction. I politely request that you refrain from doing so to any player in the future. Please do not chase players away over childish antics.

And break!
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HairyRussianDude wrote: June 16th, 2020, 9:34 pm Mali,

You're a smart guy, you know you were picking his ass for a reaction. I politely request that you refrain from doing so to any player in the future. Please do not chase players away over childish antics.

And break!
hairy this has nothing to do with my behavior
its all him i didnt do anything to him on EA or any other server
he just have something against me so dont tell me what to do
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What this is ultimately about is irrelevant. Whatever quarrel you two got into happened at another server, which has nothing to do with us yet it spilled over to here.

BD was riled up enough that you knew good and well simply saying "hi BD" would set him off. So, you said it twice for good measure. Sure, BD COULD ignore you but the reality is he isn't. Be the bigger person and say nothing to him.
"I didn't do anything." won't fool me Mali. We're all adults and your childish equivalent of holding your finger in front of BD's face while stating you aren't touching him will fool nobody.
If the server was full and we had people waiting for an open slot to jump in, your behaviour wouldn't bother me so much. But picking someone's ass until they want to leave hurts the server and hurts all of us. And for what? So you can score a personal victory by causing somebody to rage quit without blatently breaking any rules yourself?

Think of the server as a whole before you pick asses. I support BD's brief removal to give him time to calm down if he gets riled in game as I do not think that is the place to vent, but you also have the choice of whether or not you speak to him and you now know that saying anything to him will set him off.
Frankly, if you cannot handle simply NOT talking to BD and instigate outbursts or chase him away then I would support you being removed as well.

Grow up.
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Yea hairy im the problem here not him who started this shit in game
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You are both the problem in this particular situation. You brought your alternate server feud here.

BD was riled up and disrupting the game. He was removed. He needs to learn to use the ignore feature, mentally ignore, and take a breather when a player upsets him. If he doesn't, I'm sure he will be removed again.

Let me make your end of this clear. You are now aware that talking to BD at all will set him off. You are fully capable of choosing to talk to him or not. Not being the wiser choice. I would also make a pretty safe assumption that following him around in game, jumping on his equipment, laying prone in front of him while he is sniping, or any behaviour of that sort will probably set him off too. Again you have the choice to do these things or not and again not would be the wiser choice. Choosing to do so would be directly contributing to disrupting the game should it set BD off. And I hope our admin team pays attention to your choices going forward alongside his.

I don't know if that was a "fuck you", or "bitch slut", or "son of a bitch", but your insults will register better if you hurl them in English.
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Don't take it out on Hairy. He simply speaks the truth.

It was Brain's decision to bring this dispute here. But it's been your decision how to act here in response to Brain's behavior. Which thus far I would characterize as holding your finger in front of his face, chiding "Not touching you, can't get mad."

If you're not trying to bring the dispute from your server here, then quit intentionally provoking him here. Someone who didn't want the dispute here wouldn't be talking to him when he asked not to be talked to, and wouldn't be making Moroccan references with his player names, or doing any of the other childish stuff just to antagonize him.

Or I guess if that's what's important to you, keep doing it. Whatever remedy ends up being needed to put an end to it will apply to both, rather than just to Brain.
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Since we already have a thread on the continuing issues between you and Mali, I'll just start here.
From MChat, you posted the following:

GBD wrote: October 15th, 2020, 9:15 pm Ok so this about Mali's behavior again. What the admin who kicked me (again) may not know is that I've warned him gently yesterday for the same reason.
  • It was me that warned, then kicked both you and mali...just for the record
GBD wrote: I don't understand why do admins allow such an aggressor here.
We don't. That was the very reasoning behind me warning you both, then kicking you both.
GBD wrote:I mean not everyone loves each others and the way we usually deal with it is to ignore each other.

Then why is it that you cannot just ignore Mali? Why do you choose to react in a totally over-the-top manner?
I mean really GBD...look at how this went down last night.

Here are your first words when you joined:
10/15/2020 21:40:48 : # [Global] _Brain Damage_: hello

Here are Mali's first word(s) to you 5 minutes later:
10/15/2020 21:45:24 : # [Global] Shadow Hunter: hi braine

Here is your direct response to that:
10/15/2020 21:45:37 : # [Global] _Brain Damage_: fk U DONT CALL ME BRAINE U BITCH

Here is Mali's direct response to you:
10/15/2020 21:45:49 : # [Global] Shadow Hunter: BRAINE

Now, your direct response to that:
10/15/2020 21:45:58 : # [Global] _Brain Damage_: FUCK YOUR MOMA
10/15/2020 21:45:58 : # [Global] _Brain Damage_: IN THE ASS

GBD wrote:Admins must admits who is in fault here.

I willingly submit that it is YOUR FAULT
Why such an outlandish response and attack simply because Mali typed "Braine".
GBD is not your real name. It is a fictitious gaming name.
Mali calls me "tuna" all the time. I don't give a flip.
But look at how you responded.

Listen, I get it...Mali is being like my 6 year old grandson taunting you.
But you are reacting like my 3 year old grandson.
If you both want to behave like that, and if I'm there, I'm kicking and then banning if it continues.
GBD wrote:Ask all players if I've ever aggressed/harassed any of them. thanks.
Ok, I'll answer the question for myself since I'm a player as much as anyone else.
Yes...you're both harassing me with your unbelievable immature behavior.
Grow the eff up the both of you. I'm really sick of it.

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Backing tona here. You guys were doing the same thing as you were before.
I'm not going to try and tell you not to be upset by Mali calling you Braine. If it bothers you, it bothers you.
Your reaction was not appropriate for being in game. Next time, just ask him not to do it. If he continues, he goes.
If you start swearing at him immediately, you go too.

Mali, add this to the list of stuff you now know bothers another player. You're aware, if it happens you get to leave.

Both of you go back to peacefully ignoring each other and don't even say hi if need be.
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tonawandares wrote: October 16th, 2020, 3:49 pm Grow the eff up the both of you. I'm really sick of it.
+1

In my best Godfather voice:

"I see you twos got some really nice Internet access goin' on to the server there.
Be a shame if anything happened to that.
A real shame..."

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u dont love me tona!
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GBD wrote: October 18th, 2020, 2:27 am u dont love me tona!
Since I don't know you personally, I can honestly say, no I don't love you.
And, since I've been married for almost 40 years to the same woman, I can honestly say I don't love you like that either.
But I can say that I enjoy the dynamic you add to gameplay on this server.
You're a good player...a bit chatty, but generally fun to play with.

But I despise petty bickering among the players on this server with what are supposed to be adults. (referring to our general population)
It's unbecoming and unnecessary.

Outside of that, we're good.

~ tona

p.s.- Is there some cultural thing that I'm missing with you and "names?"
What I mean is this...People misspell my name all the time. From those that don't know me, It doesn't bother me. But people that know me, I feel it is a bit rude that you don't care enough, or spend enough time, to know how to spell my name properly.
I can get and understand that.
But a fictitious gaming name? Why are you so bothered by that, if I may ask?

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I beg you not to put me in the same bag as this despicable individual. We are neither the same age, nor the same education, nor the same manners,
There is a precedent, don't forget it.
So again, why does this young man keep asking me knowing how much I hate him? And everyone knows how much. I like to be called names when it comes from friendly people, not the enemies. He should ignore me forever like I do since the last clash.
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tonawandares wrote: October 18th, 2020, 9:19 am
And, since I've been married for almost 40 years to the same woman, I can honestly say I don't love you like that either.
I'll change that. Once you get Hairyed, you will no longer be married! ;)

BD, he doesn't get to call you anything. He was warned he will go if he does.
You just ignore.
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BD: just ignore him. You are letting him win by reacting at all when he calls you "Braine." Take the high road, eh?

There's even a command for ignoring a player. Do any of the other admins remember it?

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I thought it was ignore then the player #

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pretty sure that is the one Tona....i also thought you could add the players name after # , but i could be wrong...how ever, you have to re add the number again after each round associated with the player you want to ignore, because it will be different.

when i was reading this, i thought it was minutes taken from the presidential election :D....good to see i am not missing anything new !!! :D :D
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tonawandares wrote: October 19th, 2020, 4:36 pm I thought it was ignore then the player #
Yes, in the console, entering:

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ignore 12
when 12 is the player number (note there is no leading "." character or other prefix), or

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ignore Trench
But unlike other commands like "ab" (for "add buddy"), this "ignore" command does not remember the setting, and it must be re-entered for every map where you need to start ignoring someone.

Also there is an "unignore" command that takes the same parameters, similar to "rb" (remove buddy).
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ignore Trench
agreed
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